let's just be friends

today is quite a dissapointing day for me. I was so suppose to go to the Kami gig in Bukit Jalil with some friends, but I got stuck with the a very bad case of demam urat-which my sis diagnoised me-and had to stay home doing nothing. So guys, have fun without me! *sigh*

Going on, how about some thoughts of mind. Today's moral lesson is about let's just be friends.

Ain't it hard to meet new people? I mean, to the fact that mingling around with other people will make other people talk about you. In the current status quo of Malaysian students is that when they see a guy hanging out with a girl, the will automatically say that there is something going on between them.

Isn't it wrong to conclude something so hard(love) so quickly? I mean, this is someone else's life your talking about and who are you to talk about it.

For me, I think the level of open-ness in the Malaysian society has lead to this. I mean, no offence though, my university is filled with students with a family background of conservative and lack of open-ness in them. When they see something different which is out of their norm, they will talk. Mind this, maybe some people such as I will not be offended but others? Come on, some things should be filtered.

Known to the fact that let's just be friends. I particularly like the meaning of it. It says that let us be close and at the same time dettach ourselves from feelings of each other. I myself have no problem in doing this, but others can't. Some people such as myself are not in a comittable position, we can't commit due to several reason's. It's not like we can't, but it's because we don't want to-yet.

For now, I think I will hold on to the saying "lets just be friends". I hope you will to.